Ask Laura
Q: I lost my virginity to my ex-bf and now I'm with a new bf, should i trust him and give it up?
A:
Sex isn't about, "Giving it up", any more than it is about loosing your virginity. Sex is about desire and passion. You have sex to fill your desires and passions for the exploration. While it is necessary to trust your partner it isn't about trusting them to a life time commitment. It's about trusting them to be physically responsible, clean, and giving for the exchange of sexual pleasures. Sex is a give -- give, not a give and take activity. If you desire sex with a person than give them the best sex experience you know how.