Ask Laura

Q: What’s the best way to tell if you satisfy you female companion?

When she stops filing her nails for a few seconds. Or, ask her what thrills her. Have a long conversation about what feels good to her. Listen, listen--listen. Give her a hand mirror and have her look at her vagina while you lay beside her and have her show you what feels best and how she likes to be handled and touched. Conversation is a powerful tool and leads to a real understanding of the people in your life more so than the direction of total strangers.