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Q: My girlfriend is so very suspicious!!! WHAT DO I DO ????
My GF always suspects on me that i am flirting with other girls. We belong to different states. i love her so much. please help.

Let it go. Long distant relationships never, ever work. Besides if she is so low in self esteem to call you a liar and distrust you now... your life will be miserable trying to make it work. It's a guy thing to want to win the battle and overcome the obstacles, but in the case of relationships it only causes more grief. She's doing the best she can to let you know she wants out and not hurt your feelings. You have to step up to the task of telling her goodbye and good luck.